Who defines what is sucess? when do we feel satisfied?
We could have all the money and fame and still not feel happy....so why do we keep going?? I think its got to do with what you love doing....you could be paid peanuts for something u love, and ull still hang on. Or you could do just about the most sought after jobs and still feel frustrated.... It all comes down to bein yourself, doin what you want to do, not wat you should do....
A lot of ppl say, i dont know what i want to do. I have gone through that myself too....thought about why i was doing this...or whether i could still do something else....it can take a second or maybe years to figure that one out. Its all on how much u wanna accept and how much u wanna explore...
Another side of the coin is when u know where you want to be and its out of reach....you go through hell just trying to stick on to wat ur currently doing....your current job seems like a great opportunity and there's a lot to learn, but maybe not what you had in mind. Life's surprising that way, it springs surprises on you. Sometimes wrecks your idea of fun and at times, gives you more than you could ask for. Im a very strong believer of people who write their own destiny....i think you get pulled to the locations, ppl and work you want eventually....ya it all depends on how you use the opportunities presented to you.
You can choose to ignore an opportunity and consider it as a problem or take it on and end up as a beneficiary in the process. I don't think destiny or life is unfair..it presents the same opportunities to everybody, its all on you utilizing it the right way1. Yeah, it could be packaged differently,again theres a reason for it...either to make you realize the importance of things you take so easily for granted OR to probably show you the other side of coin, so you can work to your kind of situation...you win either ways.
Its possible ull call me an optimist after reading this....but when we cant magically transform our lives in a second, what else do we have other than optimism?? Everything happens for a reason....ull see it sooner or later. Its just telling urself that this is the prelude to something great and a difficult time, whichll help u learn better, can get u thru the most difficult times in ur life.
I just penned this down, bcoz tats what ive been feeling lately, when i look back at my life....i hope u identify with this.
